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If you need to talk to someone now

These are free, confidential, and answered by trained people. You don't need to be in a crisis to call one — "I don't really know why I'm calling" is a completely normal way to start.

Tele-MANAS
Ministry of Health, Government of India
144161-800-891-4416
24/7, free, available in multiple Indian languages.
AASRA
Mumbai-based, national
+91 98204 66726
24/7. Crisis support for anyone in distress.
Vandrevala Foundation
National
+91 99996 66555
24/7, by phone or WhatsApp.
iCALL
TISS, Mumbai
+91 91529 87821
Monday to Saturday, 8am–9pm. Counselling by phone and email.
CHILDLINE
For anyone under 18
1098
24/7, free, across India.

Or just message us

If calling a stranger feels like too much right now, message Mayank Tutorials on WhatsApp at 9324796571. A real person reads it. You don't have to explain everything, and you don't have to be a current student.

If tonight is the hard part

None of this fixes anything. It's just a way to get through the next hour, which is sometimes the only job.

  • Tell one person — a parent, a sibling, a friend, anyone. Even a rough, badly-worded version of it.
  • Get out of the room you're in. A balcony, a staircase, the street outside — a different room genuinely changes how a thought feels.
  • Eat something and drink water. Most bad nights have a few hours of nothing in them.
  • Put the exam away until morning. Nothing you learn tonight in this state will be there tomorrow anyway.
  • If the thoughts have gone somewhere frightening, call 14416 now. That's exactly what it's for, and you won't be wasting anyone's time.

For parents: what's worth noticing

None of these are a diagnosis, and any one of them alone is usually just a teenager being a teenager. It's a cluster of them, lasting more than a couple of weeks, that's worth acting on.

  • Sleep that's changed a lot in either direction, for more than two weeks.
  • Pulling away from friends, or from things they used to enjoy without being asked.
  • "What's the point" turning up more than once, even said lightly or as a joke.
  • Eating noticeably more or less than usual.
  • Irritability or anger that seems bigger than whatever set it off.
  • Giving away things they care about, or talking about themselves as a burden.

If several of these are true at once, don't wait for the right words. Say the direct thing — "you haven't seemed yourself, and I'm worried about you" — and let a professional take it from there. Your GP or paediatrician is a normal, ordinary first step.

Saathi is a guide written by a coaching institute, not a medical service. Nothing here is a diagnosis or a substitute for a doctor, a counsellor, or a helpline.